"Happiness without a hangover"

By the indefatigable Pema Chodron:

"As we train in opening our hearts we gradually feel more joy, the joy that comes from a growing appreciation of our basic goodness. We still experience strong conflicting emotions, we still experience the illusion of separateness, but there is a fundamental openess that we begin to trust. This trust in our fresh, unbiased nature brings us unlimited joy - a happiness thats completely devoid of clinging and craving. Thats they joy of happiness without a hangover. 

How do we cultivate the conditions for joy to expand? We train in staying present...we stay with our little plot of earth that can be cultivated, that cultivation will bring it to its full potential. Even though its full of rocks and the soil is dry, we begin to plow this plot with patience"

"The journey for the sake of saving our own lives is little by little to cease to live in any sense that really matters, even to ourselves, because it is only by journeying for the world's sake - even when the world bores and sickens and scares you half to death - that little by little we start to come alive." Fredrick Buechner